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May 19th 2009

Velupillai Prabhakaran And The L.t.t.e

“Man who lives by the sword dies by the sword” – An old Jungle Saying as per quite a few original Phantom comic books.

Before I say anything further I would like to make a statement that I do NOT wish to condone the suicide bombings, killings of political leaders in Sri Lanka and above all the assassination of our country’s former Prime Minister Mr. Rajiv Gandhi – all allegedlly perpetrated by the LTTE.

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I’ve always admired the LTTE and Prabhakaran from my childhood. This could be because children are easily impressionable and also because being brought up in TamilNadu there is always an undercurrent of support for the Liberation Tigers of Tamil Eelam. We were brought up with lots of emapthy towards our Tamil cousins across the sea. And this was heightened when I had very good friends who studied in my class at School who were immigrants or refugees from Sri Lanka.

To understand this empathy for Sri Lankan Tamils, you need to know that I was brought up in a place called Nagercoil in Kanyakumari District. Nagercoil being a coastal town and the district surrounded by water on three sides ours was a hotspot for LTTE activities, I suppose, before the assassination of Rajiv Gandhi.

So, combined with a sympathy for our fellow Tamils we were also fascinated by Guerilla warfare and also stories that used to come from across the sea. I cannot promise that the stories were true but my friends used to ‘claim’ that they were eye witnesses to quite a few things. Some of the stories narrated to me as a child was the Sri Lankan army bombing civilians in and around Jaffna, about biological warfare in the coastal and Jungle towns where the LTTE operated and also about civilian massacres undertaken by the SLA in other parts of Sri Lanka. I tend to believe some of the stories because the oppression of Sri Lankan Tamils by the Sinhalese majority is TRUE. This has been validated quite a few times by different International agencies at different times.

So the rootcause of all problems was the ethnic conflict between the Sri Lankan Tamils and the Sinhalese. To fight this conflict there were different political parties and other militant outfits were formed. Prabhakaran himself was a very vocal activist against the Sri Lankan government as a young man. He formed the TNT (Tamil New Tigers) in his early years which eventually became to be known officially as the LTTE. Please note that TNT and LTTE were successors to quite a few outfits which fizzled out or where ousted by Prabhakaran and his associates. This was quite necessary as far as Prabhakaran was concerned so that there was a single organization behind the freedom thrust and not many of them fighting for the same thing.

Now, another saying that comes to my mind is about how war and peace. “War cannot broker peace”. This is an old adage that has been quoted and said in different ways by different people. I am a firm believer in this statement. That was why even though I was fucking pissed off like the rest of the country when the Mumbai Terror attacks happened I was one of the very few people who were FOR a political solution between India and Pakistan rather than a full fledged war. So, one of the mistakes I can see from what LTTE did was to use warfare to bring to light the plight of the Tamils. And of course, the suicide bombings. That was deplorable. 

And then the biggest mistake ever – the killing of Rajiv Gandhi at Sriperumbudur near Chennai on May 21, 1991. This was a direct reaction to Rajiv Gandhi’s initiative to support the Sri Lankan Government and to use the Indian Peace Keeping Force to fight against the LTTE. 

Eighteen years later, almost to the day, the  SLA has claimed the killing of Prabhakaran, the LTTE supremo.

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Apart from the brief history I have given above to the best of my knowledge, I do admire the work done by LTTE in letting the world know the suffering and ethnic harassment by the Sinhalese over the generations right from Independance in 1948. 

And now, with the SLA claiming that a body charred beyond recognition to be that of the Prabhakaran the conspiracy theories will start. Just like the Osama Bin Laden theories. At the end of the day, even though the cause probably was noble to begin with, like all terrorist organizations LTTE has been dealt a deathly blow in the death of its leader.

I do hope our cousins get what they want and get political stability in Sri Lanka. I sincerely wish that there will be no more problems for the Tamils there. 

Mr. Prabhakaran, I admired your courage even though I never liked your tactics. May you rest in peace. And if peace will be brokered by your death, let the world know that yours was a good death. 

April 14th 2008

For Sale: 13-year-old Virgin

Oh man, this is happening in India? Still? Damn! Double Damn! Triple Damn! And I get to know through Nothing to do with Arboroath even though I am from India? Quadruple damn! I am not sure this is good at all. Penta damn!

Thirty miles west of the Taj Mahal, on the road to the pink city of Jaipur, tourists on buses pass a sight that the guide books rarely mention.

Tonight, one girl in particular is attracting attention as she sits on a stool by a fire so that she can be seen by passing vehicles. Her heavily made-up, striking face and beautiful pink sari make her look as if she were on her way to a party. But the truth is different. Suli, 14, is a virgin and a bidding war is being held for the right to be the first to sleep with her.

The normal rate is 100 rupees (£1.30) but a virgin is sold to the highest bidder for anything over 20,000 rupees. If she is very pretty, the community would hope to get up to 40,000 rupees. For this, the man can have access to the girl for as long as he likes – several hours, days, or even weeks. When he tires of her, there is a celebration. Because it is considered unlucky for a girl to keep the money from her first time, it is spent instead on an extravagant party. Jewellery is bought for her and for her relatives, goats are slaughtered and alcohol runs freely. There is dancing, and offerings are made to the gods.

Once a girl has lost her virginity she cannot marry. The choice has been made and the community celebrates it – this is her non-wedding night.

Link, through NTDWA

March 17th 2008

Transgenders Recognized By Issuing Ration Cards In Tamilnadu, India

Now that came as a complete surprise to me. Really! It was totally unexpected from Tamil Nadu which is considered as really conservative.

Some sample excerpts from Ask Sex Doctor.

“I am Thrilled To know that Transgenders existence has been acknowledged by the letter T by the
Government of Tamil Nadu, by issuing ration cards, which is the prime identity card for people of India. Thanks to the social welfare minister Dr. Poongothai Aladi Aruna, who is a gynaecologist.

The People Development Initiative (PDI), an NGO is also happy.
Earlier, on December 21, 2006, another path breaking initiative was taken.The Tamil Nadu government had issued an order offering free sex reconstruction surgery (SRS) for the transgendered after counseling.

The step by Tamil Nadu’s civil supplies department marks the first time that authorities anywhere in India have recognised the group. In Tamil Nadu alone, where transsexuals like Pooja have begun getting ration cards on Thursday, the move will lead to an estimated 40,000 members of the community nowidentifying themselves as members of a third gender.”

February 19th 2008

Bangalore Indiblogger Meet

Ah, that was one satisfying meet for the indibloggers. I called for the meeting to initiate the whole new feature at indiblogger.in for calling for meetings within one’s city. And I should congratulate the indiblogger team, myself included, for making it a grand success.

The Bangalore meet started at 4:30 PM at Microssoft premises. It went on till about 8:30 PM. That was quite a long meeting I should say. The agenda included introduction of bloggers, an intro into indiblogger by Renie, a skit by the indiblogger team, a presentation of live writer by Microsoft, a presentation by leadcap on empowering India, and of course, free pizzas courtesy of Microsoft.

It was our first major initiative as part of the Chows gang. And we pulled it off. There were so many things that could have been done better with a little bit more planning, of course. But altogether, it was amazing, considering the feedback we got from the attendees. Read more at the following sites:

http://mutiny.in/2008/02/17/indiblogger-bloggers-meet-at-microsoft-bangalore/

http://weblog.mrinalwadhwa.com/2008/02/17/indibloggerin-meet-a-very-interesting-evening/

http://www.justascrap.com/2008/02/17/microsoft-blogger-meet-bangalore/

That’s me welcoming everyone to the Bangalore Indiblogger blogger meet.

That’s part of the bloggers at the meet intently listening to something.

That’s us doing the skit.

And that’s some of us just goofing around after the meet.

More pictures of the meet at Indiblogger group in flickr and Anoopkumar’s photostream at picasa.

I met a lot of people whom I truly found interesting and others who I would have liked to have more conversations. Maybe, in the next meeting. Some notable people are Himanshu (who someone called the ‘walking Stephen Hawking‘), Pradeep Nair (who had to leave early due to work), Mrinal, Ravi from Metblogs, Sanjukta, Comrade Chakra who was the dude of humor, and more and more.

Looking forward to other indiblogger meets now. Not sure if I can spare time to visit meetings in other cities, but in Bangalore, yes. I will be there!!!

January 16th 2008

Indians Are Racist

From Conversations with self

  • When you laugh at a Sardar joke, you’re a racist.
  • When you imitate a Mallu accent, you’re a racist.
  • When you call all South Indians “Madrasi”, you’re a racist.
  • Here’s a riddle – Why won’t you find a Raymond showroom in Pakistan? – Because there aren’t any complete men there. Funny? You’re a racist.
  • When you call Telugu people “Goltis”, you’re a racist.
  • When you call Malayalees “Mallus”, you’re a racist.
  • When you call Tamilians “Katpadi” and/or “Kongas”, you’re a racist.
  • When you call anyone from North East India / East Asia “Chinkis”, you’re a racist.
  • When you call Bengalis “Bongs”, you’re a racist.
  • When you’re looking for a fair bride/groom in your matrimonial, you’re a racist

When I was younger I thought I was a racist. I probably still am. But at least I know I am equal and not superior to all the other human beings around me, when considering race as a factor.